At one point or the other, ladies expecte
men to get down on their knees and propose.
However, this doesn’t happen always. Not
every relationship end up in marriage and in
some cases, a few may look like they will but
at the long
run, the women get to discover it’s
a ghost chase with those men.
Ladies unlike the men have the urge to settle
down quickly and start a family. Most men
often feel pressurized when it comes to this
issue of settling down with a lady and getting
married. As ladies, what are the implications
of dating men who aren’t ready to settle down
and what are the signs that say a man isn’t
ready to settle down.
1. Lack Of Commitment
This isn’t so difficult to observe. When a man
shows no zeal or interest in making future
plans with a woman, then the future of that
relationship itself is questionable. Men like
these are hard to make plans with. They
probably want to have fun and keep things as
they are. They prefer the relationship to be as
plain as possible and may suggest keeping
things as they are for a while. They avoid
complications that may arise from meeting
the lady’s family members and could date the
woman for as long as possible without
suggesting they get engaged or seal the
relationship.
3. Failure To Plan His Life With You
A man who doesn’t let his girlfriend in on the
little details of his life isn’t ready to take any
step towards settling down. Not only is he
expected to ask the woman about plans for
her life, he should be able to discuss the
things he hopes to achieve with her as well.
This would give the lady a sense of belonging
and both of them could work things out from
that vantage point. A man who wouldn’t share
details of his work and family shows he’s not
ready to settle down. He prefers to be as
shady as possible.
4. Lack Of Responsibility
A man who cannot cater for the needs of his
girlfriend and people around him strikes one
as being irresponsible. Men like these often
lack the initiative to do things on their own
and when they do, it turns out to be the wrong
things. They would rather blow large amount
of money away on irrelevant things and get
stranded on the major projects of their lives.
They have no set priorities and would be quick
to jump off the cliff with a new person of
interest. The ladies in their lives have a
feeling of insecurity due to their recklessness.
Men like these could engage a woman for as
long as possible and never make plans to
marry her. Life is all about fun and adventure
to them.
5. Secretive
Some men are weird and secretive
. Everything
is coded with them. They avoid taking the
ladies out to major functions that involves
family and friends. They are more or less
afraid to be seen in public with these ladies.
They avoid the word marriage and make the
women feel they are being rushed when the
women demand for more. They also try as
much as possible to make their family
members out of the ladies’ reach and hide
under the pretense of being too busy. These
signs show a man isn’t ready to settle down.
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