WHEN YOU AND YOUR PARTNER ARE HIGHLY IN THE MOOD TO ROCK IT UP, PREFERRING TO LET LIGHT ON IS SOMETIMES NOT NECESSARY FOR BOTH OF YOU ESPECIALLY THE GUYS. IT SOMETIMES KEEPS THE OTHER PARTNER TO WONDER IF
THERE COULD BE ANY REASON ATTACH TO IT SINCE YOU ARE THE ONLY PEOPLE IN THE ROOM AT THE MOMENT. Well, below are some of the reasons to this:
#1 THEY ARE INSECURE ABOUT THEIR BODY.
This can sometimes be a downer because your insecurities bubble up to the surface through your insistence on turning the lights down or off. Low self-esteem is a turnoff, it can be endearing at times but no one wants to coddle and build someone’s self-confidence right before they’re about to have se’-x.
#2 THEY REACT NEGATIVELY TO THE AESTHETICS OF BAD LIGHTING.
Fluorescent and neon lights are not recommended for se’-xy-time lighting. The white light washes everything out and makes you look like a morgue tenant. Neon lights hardly illuminate anything and can make you look like a vampire – which some people are into, I guess.
#3 THE LIGHT EXPOSES THEM TO NEIGHBORS.
One of the most important requirements for a hot and heavy hook-up session is privacy. Some places aren’t designed to have enough privacy with the lights on, like curtainless flats or blinds that can expose your silhouettes.
#4 THEY CAN SEE ALL THE MESS THAT THEY FORGOT TO CLEAN UP. The only reason why some people would want to turn off all the lights and have se’-x in pitch black darkness is because they don’t want their partner to see how messy their place is. The beauty of this is that you can exhaust your partner to the point where they won’t care about the mess when the lights are turned on.
#5 THEY’RE NOT USED TO HAVING SE’-X UNDER A CERTAIN LIGHT. Imagine when people say they prefer oranges over apples, it’s the same concept with lighting. If a person is used to having se’-x under a certain kind of light, they will insist on adjusting it so that they can enjoy the most out of the activity. Bad lighting can be distracting, which isn’t good for concentrating on the needs of your partner
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